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Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT)

CBT is a structured treatment with set parts. This page describes what it consists of, what a session looks like, and how long a course usually runs.

What CBT is

NICE recommends CBT for OCD, panic, social anxiety, generalised anxiety and depression. Its central idea is that what you think, what you do and how you feel affect one another, and that the way they feed into each other can keep a problem going long after whatever started it has passed. Someone has a panic attack in a supermarket, starts avoiding supermarkets, and never gets the chance to learn that they could have managed the sensations and got on with the shopping. CBT therefore focuses less on why a problem began than on what keeps it in place today, because understanding where a fear came from does not by itself remove it.

Formulation: where the treatment starts

A formulation is a diagram, built with you, of what keeps your problem going now. It sets out the trigger, the thought, the feeling in your body, what you then do, and how that response keeps the belief in place. It is not a diagnosis or a life history. We start it in the first session and refine it over the next one or two. If it is accurate, the treatment plan follows from it.

Most of the work is done by doing

Part of CBT is examining thoughts, for example identifying the prediction you are making and noticing when a possibility is being treated as a certainty. But talking rarely shifts a belief held at gut level, and that is the belief keeping the anxiety going. The change comes from what you do: going into the situations you have been avoiding, in planned steps, and dropping the things you do to feel safe while you are there. The main thing you learn is that you can handle the anxiety, and the not knowing, without the avoiding and the precautions, and that this gets easier with practice. Some of that practice is set up as a behavioural experiment, which is a deliberate test of a prediction, written down first in specific terms and checked afterwards. A prediction such as “it will be awful” cannot be tested, whereas “three people will look at me and one will comment” can. Finding out what actually happens is useful, but it is one part of the learning rather than the whole of it. A thought record and a behavioural experiment sheet are free on the worksheets page.

Behavioural experiments, worked through

Someone with social anxiety who is certain that going quiet will be noticed and judged says nothing for two minutes in a meeting, stays with the discomfort, and records what actually happened. Someone with panic who believes a racing heart means collapse runs up two flights of stairs on purpose to bring on the sensations, stays with them, and sees what follows. Someone with health anxiety goes a week without checking a symptom and records what the anxiety did over that week. Someone with generalised anxiety who believes an unchecked email will contain a serious mistake sends one without rereading it and notes what followed.

What a session looks like

Sessions are active and structured. If something significant happened in the week we deal with it, but there is a plan, and each session ends with a specific task to try before the next one, usually with a note of what you predicted and what actually happened. Most of the change happens in that practice between sessions. If a task repeatedly does not get done, it was pitched wrong or something is in the way, and we adjust it.

What happens in a CBT session, in order
  1. A brief check on the week and any measures we are tracking.
  2. An agenda, set together in the first few minutes.
  3. Review of what you tried since last time and what it showed.
  4. The main piece of work, such as refining the formulation, running an experiment, practising a skill or planning an exposure.
  5. Agreeing the next task, written down and specific enough to do.
  6. A short summary from you, in your own words, of what the session was about.

Time-limited on purpose

CBT is designed to end. The aim is that you leave able to run the process yourself, by noticing the pattern, setting up a test, carrying it through while anxious and drawing your own conclusion. Towards the end we space sessions out and make a plan for setbacks. There is more on how I work.

How CBT and ERP differ, and when each is used

ERP sits inside the CBT family and is the form of CBT that NICE names for OCD. For phobias, panic and health anxiety the main method is exposure therapy, which works on the same principle. Broader CBT has a wider range of methods, including work on beliefs, attention and imagery work for social anxiety, and experiments with uncertainty for generalised anxiety.

In OCD the cognitive part needs care, because examining evidence and reasoning your way to comfort can turn into another compulsion, and behavioural experiments are not the core of OCD treatment. I use the cognitive work sparingly there, to set up exposures and not to settle doubts. I do not take on depression as the main problem, but low mood is often present alongside anxiety and OCD, and I address it within that work, usually through activity scheduling, which means planning specific activities into your week.

Common questions

How can I tell whether what I am being offered is really CBT?

CBT usually has three features. There is a shared formulation of your problem, an account of what keeps it going that you have gone through and agreed, there is a plan with a way of measuring whether it is working, and you leave each session with something specific to do before the next appointment. Where none of these is present, what you are having may be closer to supportive counselling, which can be valuable and is a different treatment with its own evidence base.

Is CBT just positive thinking?

No. CBT is not about replacing negative thoughts with cheerful ones. Most of it is done through what you do rather than through argument: you go into the situations you have been avoiding, drop the things you do to feel safe, and learn that you can handle the anxiety and the uncertainty that come with them. Along the way you also test beliefs that have never been tested, and sometimes the finding is that the feared thing happens and you cope with it, which is also useful to know. Nobody is asked to pretend that a real difficulty is fine.

How many sessions will I need?

CBT is time-limited by design. There is no fixed number. Published guidance gives an idea: NICE describes 12 to 15 weekly sessions for generalised anxiety and 7 to 14 hours in total for panic disorder (CG113), up to 14 sessions for social anxiety (CG159), and more than 10 hours of therapist time for OCD with a moderate impact on daily life (CG31); the largest US trials used 14 sessions for childhood OCD (Pediatric OCD Treatment Study, 2004) and 12 parent sessions for SPACE (Lebowitz and colleagues, 2020). I give you an estimate by the end of the first session, and sometimes further assessment is needed before I can. We review progress at intervals, and if it is not working I would rather say so and change the plan.

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Not sure whether this is the right fit?

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